open letter to joel spolsky

[rone]

I'm sure that you didn't mean to sound like this, but your recent entry about lunch at work comes across as if you're practically peer-pressuring coworkers to lunch together, which can't be a good thing.  How do you deal with introverts or people with Asperger syndrome?  It's good to welcome new people, and encourage social behavior (especially because lunch should be a real break and not simply the time of the day when you eat at your desk).  But if i worked with you, your use of the words "not negotiable" for the concept of eating with your coworkers doesn't make me want to have lunch with you.

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[wordweaverlynn.livejournal.com]

I think he needs a little therapy and to get over junior high.

Newsflash: many employees use lunchtime to do essential non-work errands or to get equally essential "me time." Others have food allergies that make eating with the herd difficult to impossible.