see, i wouldn't have been able to stop myself from laughing at that point. what a self-important loser.

i'm sorry this happened to you. i agree with everyone else -- the guy was an asshole, and seriously out of line both with you and his daughter.

on the up side, i expect he will now learn that if you wish to be invited back, it's best not to threaten or make unfounded accusations about the hosts' relatives.